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Recalling Ones Purposeful Events In One’s Dying Process – A Letter
What will you recall of past events and happenings at the end of your life if you have an Aware Dying Process to go through?

It could be a list of regrets of things you wish you had done but didn’t?
It could be fond memories of being with certain friends or members of your family?
It could be a list of your fears in going out of existence through your dying?
It could be a list of things you still want to …

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On Death And Dying Sept 28 2009

Must we fear our own dying?

I have always thought that cancer people are given a conscious and evocative death. Their loved ones and friends are also given time to relate to the cancer person. It certainly is happening with me.
I find at this stage wherein I certainly may be in my dying process that my main concern is to finish up important things in my life. One is getting married so that Stefania can have all the rights she is entitled to, such as …

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Why Terrible Things Happen To People?
Issues: … reality of evil … reality … opposites at work … love applied to reality … the bad and the good … Ivan the Terrible … Dalai Lama the Good … positive and negative …
Is it bad luck? No, it is not just or always bad luck, according to this author-psychologist who has experienced life. Luck has nothing to do with bad things happening to you and others.

Bad things happen because they must.
Bad things happen because someone has been trying to be too …

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Good News This Day Of The New Apartment Aug 11
In Netherlands it takes years usually to get to the top of the list for nice housing in a sought after area. Five years ago Stefania and I moved into a run-down house they were destroying in five years and now five years later they are giving us a modern apartment.
We are both permanent residents to the Netherlands, so to break into this culture and get benefits is just major, major.
At the same time I have the cancer diagnosis and treatment …

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The I Of Life And Death
The I of death?
Not the eye of death but the I of death …

Not the I of death but the death of I.

This is not just a philosophic issue, for it involves how we see ourselves, and how we see ourselves determines in part how we live our lives.
Those in relationship no the difference maybe from the times they have had living alone.
In relationship you are constantly hammered as to who you are to your partner. You know also those expectations and projections you …

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Dreaming And The Secret Life
Aphorism: You haven’t lived until you have dreamed you have lived …
I just woke from my early evening nap of about two and a half hours, my partner still asleep in bed home from work.
It’s all part of my world now coming out into the main room and seeing the new medication we worked on getting today to suppress my big coughing bouts. The pharmacist came in on this one.
I checked out my General Practitioner again today with more strength myself. She is the one who …

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Night Wisdom – How God Acts In The Little Things
Issues: … peeing in public … intruding on people … God at work in little things … synchronicity … awareness and action … meaningful coincidence …

How does God act in the little things?
If you are me you look for direct evidence in experience that God as a non-ego and non ego directed force for meaning is acting in the direct experience of your life.

God is the non ego-directed, intentional force for purposeful action and meaning operating in everyday experience.

God is not …

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Original Daily Wisdom – Want And Choice
‘It’s not what you want, it’s what you choose in life that counts.’
A wise woman once said to me in training me in how to deal with disturbed teenagers, ‘Don’t ask them what they want, Strephon. They don’t know that. They are not developed enough yet to know both what they want and what is good for them.’
‘Yes, Dorothea,’ I replied, for I had much to ponder, being fairly young yet myself.
‘Give a young person three choices and say they have to choose one …