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“I’m Pretty Good At The Sex”

Yes, someone said this today on Huffington Post. It’s not him I focus on but the attitude.

The Huffington Post brings life, and its readers deal with that life. I am dealing with it here.

I point to the attitude, not the person.

Any of us can be at fault when we make sex a performance issue, and we will be doing the same to our partners.

• Sex has no built-in performance scales.

1. Sex is an experience, not a pot of gold.

First say this catechism by repeating any five sayings out loud five time times before a date or strong relationship encounter, or even alone before your masturbation..

• Sex is not a performance, it is a mystery …

2. Sex is unique to every time, every person and every experience, if you don’t feel this way, don’t do it …

• Sex takes courage to let go to another in sex, take your time …

• Sex is easy, don’t strive for goals, let sex guide you ..

• Don’t set goals for sex, sex is not goals, sex can lead you to where it wants to go, let it …

3. Sex is easy, life is hard, don’t make hard what life makes easy

• find the person and sex will be and bring joy, neglect the person and no sex is satisfying …

4. I love myself as I am, I don’t need sex goals to fulfill me …

• Share your sex, but share feelings around it at well, you are a talking animal, so talk …

Make contact first, never use sex for contact, but if you do, keep trying to make it more than it is for you by cooperating with another person you may be having sex with …

• Sex doesn’t matter but love does, love is doing what you are doing with another person, you must both be equally involved …

• Be honest, be kind, be sharing, you don’t make love, love makes you, so help each other …

Sex is what you make it, are you creating with your sex or exploiting, deceiving, being dishonest, being limited and uninvolved otherwise, then work out how deeply you two can have contact together and your sexual intensity may grow, or it may diminish.

5. Love may grow or diminish, sex stays the same …

• If you cannot love now, when will you begin to love?

• Love the one you are with and leave the one you are not able to be with, for whatever reason …

• In love there are no regrets, no strangers and no goodbye’s. In sex are the betrayals, the compulsions, the stalking’s, the demands, the sleepless nights, the crimes and all the passions, the instinct to die or kill someone, or kill the relating forever.

• Learn then to take sex into love by practicing such …

Go looks:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/07/28/the-sartorialist-im-prett_n_246187.html

http://lovinglaurie.com/

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